Parents don't ask child "who is the most favorite"
When kids just learn to use language to express their "perspectives", worried parents, you really want to know the status of children in their own minds. We heard a classic question is "like father like you MOM"? Experts pointed out that this classic questions, raises a bad misleading to children, should not ask a child. 1. separation and integration of parent education, strengthening their favorite party. Make parents joint education mode of psychological selection and italic. 2. is it possible to buried seeds of children all in all, learn to lie. This sentence is in itself motivate children conscious than their parents, but the child is too young, he is to see who he probably better, more value. Parents in family status is inherently fuzzy concept of all is common, questioning contributed to the children of this concept in mind clearly, also the parents of the importance of his sense of difference. Therefore, parents must respect the child's choice, don't have to strengthen their position in the minds of children. See March 26, 2009 Edition of the family health report of the original "development education"
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