Friday, April 8, 2011
High school freshmen face the new environment and make mental adjustments Holidays.
Reflected in major hospitals, according to psychologist, each of the new semester after the first semester, freshmen are the peak period of psychological counseling, and many students suddenly faced a new environment, there will be adjustment disorder. .In view of this, parents and students the best during the holidays to do some preparatory work in order to smooth their children into a new learning phase. .How can we better adapt to the new environment? .Let us hear how psychologists say. .High school freshmen face the new environment and psychological adjustment of respondents do holidays Experts: School of Harbin Song Weijie QU Weijie psychological <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> leave the face of the new environment of psychological adjustment to do "/ .> </ IMG> students, especially freshman in high school and face the new environment, and common problems in four main areas: <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> first, easy to produce, "separation anxiety." old friend .special attachment to the students, will count on emotional attachment to the new environment, but friendship is set to take a long time accumulated, so the new environment between the students do not understand, not understanding, it will have a psychological gap between them. < .wbr> <wbr> <wbr> second exposure to the original problem. the psychological problems during the college entrance examination for students, such as occurred in test anxiety, poor interpersonal relationships, students with unsatisfactory results, all these problems may be a transient .nature, not fully exposed, and the new environment may stimulate outstanding performance out of these problems. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> third, prone to learning disabilities. high school of learning more about the arrangements on their own, different from the .Most of Junior High schools by teachers arrange learning tasks, some high school freshman would have suited this approach to learning; the university completely on their own, some students will not suddenly learn that. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> s .Fourth, interpersonal problems in easily revealed in the boarding school. University usually live on campus, and some high schools also live on campus, in the family, the children experience a "young and old, Xiang Xie," and live on campus is "the same age live together." If .Most people with the bedroom in the relationship can get along, that no difficulty in communication, if most people do not feel good, that there are some exchanges of its own obstacles. lie between the child's communication ability can be detected. <wbr> < .wbr> <wbr> In addition, freshmen also prone to a sense of loss. Some students are admitted to schools lower than their expectations, compared with others, prone to inferiority complex internal development, external development prone to complain about emotions, such as complaining .school environment is not good, so good teachers. There's freshmen finally get rid of the original "three-point line", easy to suddenly have a "liberated" a sense of puberty on the "freedom" of the desire, then easily become the University .life, "do whatever they like", such as the Internet all day long, off-campus cohabitation. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> how to solve these problems then? <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> 1. "immune" than "treatment" is more important. .Parents can ask relatives, neighbors, some of have been in high school, college kids, to their children be introduced to high school or college life, taught some experience. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> 2. cultivate children some capacity. during the holidays .give children more opportunities to interact with other children, such as with students, colleagues child interaction at home, do not do on their skills assessment, only the guide, as a child into a new environment, some "exercise". <wbr> <wbr .> <wbr> 3. If you find a problem child, to prevent the chance. Do not think that kids lucky enough to travel, entertainment, consumer, giving money to children's problems can be solved, but to pay attention to observe, to see children eating is good sleep ., along with people not ring true, there is no psychological problems such as difficult to resolve, if any, to use the holiday to help children solve problems, when necessary, with children as psychological counseling. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> 4. Parents should .up at class. read some with their children at this stage of education, psychology-related books, materials, and even children into the new environment so that some problems will also communicate with their children to solve. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> 5. for the upcoming .Students entering high school, to prevent the holiday as a crazy makeup. relaxation is better to let children fly, or make up classes in the school results will be wiped out tired. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> 6. UNIVERSITY .students do their own pre-prepared. should solve the life problems of university life as the two tracks: on the one hand to solve learning problems, on the one hand to resolve interpersonal, communication, social adjustment problems; In addition, college students after the school freshmen will have their .psychological evaluation, parents can communicate with teachers to understand their mental state, there are certain problems are found the child to actively support teachers to improve the child's condition. our reporter Li Hua, see the original "Family Health News" July 24, 2008 12th Edition .Psychological Inn <wbr>.
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