Attention to small details of life make you more friendly.

Make you more amiable "/> Note that the small details of life make you more friendly <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> Recently, the United States," Health Day "website published a study by scientists new discovery: holding a cup of steaming hot coffee .or tea, can people look to play a more friendly, approachable. So, what are the details of life, you can enhance the affinity of it? psychologists Zhang Taisheng to tell you it. small body movements can be closer to each other from the <wbr> < .wbr> <wbr> little attention we may have their own small body movements, but when you communicate with others, intentionally or unintentionally, some of the little tricks, but the distance may be closer to each other accidents: When you chat with a person ., the body that the body slightly side, looking at each other to more than 4 seconds, a little diversion of attention and then watching each other for 4 seconds, they will feel relaxed and to trust you. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> when .You sit and talk with each other, with one hand lightly resting on the neck, exposing the wrist and palm of the hand; or by hand occasionally to touch the arm of the chair or chair with one hand lightly on the edge of these small actions will .people feel relaxed and at home. change the way the language can enhance the affinity <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> conversation is the most basic way of our daily social, and attention to small details of the conversations, you can easily enhance your affinity. < .wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <u> attention to emotional synchronization </ U> conversation to pay attention to each other's emotions, and try to keep pace with, if the other party feeling urgent, you have to talk with the same emotions; each other slowly .You can also use the same tone of their exchange, the other side it is easy to agree with you. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <u> representation system to be synchronized </ U>'s representation system is divided into visual, auditory, sensory-based .visual-based rich body language when people speak, speaking speed, fluctuating chest; auditory frustrated people who talk a strong sense of yin and yang, eyes half-Kan Bukan each other; feeling type who speak little face, the eyes do not like .to see each other. psychological analysis that people will never like people like themselves together, so a sense of security, so we talk with people, pay attention to what the other is a representation of the type also used the same way as far as possible to express. .such as a visual type of person to talk to you, talk to each other fast, expressive, and you are feeling type, if the face expressionless, the eyes do not see each other, the other will think you do not mind him seriously, of course, you also difficult to .close to the. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <u> language synchronizes </ U> Some people in the habit of talking to some of the terms, mantra, etc., such as "I", "special" and so on, if you do not use such time .if talking to him, the other can easily be accepted. mirror effect you are a mirror of each other, tease each other inadvertently spoke a little hair, you also join the conversation action, the person inadvertently touched the ears, you inadvertently touch .under the ear, the other will feel you are very kind. <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <u> seriously listen to </ U> If you can do 70% of conversation time in listening, 30% of the time, say, and .70% said the process is asked, 30% in response to each other, while talking from time to time in the other nodded, and the other is easy to see you as his confidant. our reporter Li Hua, see the original "Family Health News" in November 2008 .13, 12th Edition psychological Inn.